Why does waiting feel harder when we really want something?

When to Ask?:

While waiting for food, a visitor, a turn, a trip, or a promised plan.

How to Ask?:

“Waiting can feel so big… why do you think it gets harder when we really want something?”

Keep in Mind:

Try not to turn the moment into a lesson on patience. Let the child describe the feeling of waiting first.

Follow Up [contrast]:

Does waiting feel different when you know exactly how long it will be?

Ask kids to:

Finish this question: “Why does waiting…”